What You DON’T Need

What You DON'T NeedToday, I would like to share my thoughts about what you DON’T need in order to educate your children. These are my personal thoughts and are intended to be an encouragement for you but everyone is different.

I know that we do things much different than a lot of people. But, isn’t that true for all of us? So, here is my list of what you DON’T need.

  1. Formal Curriculum (or Boxed Curriculum) – Having and using a boxed, formal curriculum is not bad and for a lot of people, it works really well. But it isn’t something that you have to have. If it works for you, great! But one of the beautiful things about educating your children is that you can pick and choose the bits and pieces that work for your children and skip the parts that don’t work so well. There are a million and a half ways to educate and a million and a half choices for what and how to teach any given concept. So, pick what works best for your family but don’t feel like you have to go with a complete, formal, boxed curriculum.
  2. To Know It All – I have only been homeschooling the girls for a year now but I have had a lot of people tell me “I couldn’t possibly teach my kids. I don’t know enough.” But the truth is – You Don’t Have To Know It All! No one can know it all; why should I be any different? I am learning a lot right before or right alongside of my girls. We all learn together and we are all stronger for it.
  3. To Have It All Planned Out – While it is good to have a plan and to know where you are headed, it doesn’t have to be all scheduled out. You do not have to have a day by day breakdown of every single thing your kids are going to do and learn. You do not have to have it all written down. (I understand that there are some states that require different documentation than where I live so please take those requirements into account with this one.) I do write a weekly set of plans out but these are flexible and if the girls get involved in a project and it grows and they are learning, I’ll change the plans. (That is why I write in pencil.)
  4. Social Media – I know. Coming from a blogger that is probably a little strange sounding. But really, we have to use social media wisely. Getting ideas – great. Learning about a product – fantastic. Finding encouragement – wonderful. Often, though, social media can be a distraction and a burden. I don’t know about you, but it is really easy for me to get bummed out when I look at Facebook. I visit every day and keep in touch with a lot of people, but it is an easy place to get depressed and begin comparing yourself to others. Pinterest is another one of those social media sites that can be depressing. You look at the beautiful sewing and lovely cakes and healthy dinners and start questioning your dedication to your family because what you do looks so different. It is easy to do. (Just for the record – you are special, unique, and a creation of the Lord God, who has a plan just for you. No one else can fulfill the plan he has for you so you are perfect for your family, even if you can’t make the perfect looking 5 layer birthday cake and matching dress to go with it.) But, social media can be useful and be used wisely. Just know your limits, know your abilities, and don’t expect too much out of yourself. (Yep – preaching to myself here.)

These areas are what I choose to share with you because they are what I struggle with most myself. I second guess myself on curriculum choices (I’ll share those later this week). I look at the beautiful planner I have and feel that tug of guilt for not using it better. I hear the questions the girls ask and think “I am so far in over my head!” I check Facebook or Pinterest (my two social media of choice) and begin thinking how much “less” I am than others on my wall. But, then I go back to my DO need list and remember those things. Pull out prayer and I feel better immediately. Find my supporters and see what they are up to and I feel stronger.

I just want to encourage you to let go of these things and hold onto the DO list a little bit more. (Did you catch the DO need list? I shared it yesterday.) May you be blessed as you strive to parent your children in a strong, godly manner. At Home.


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7 thoughts on “What You DON’T Need

  1. Tess August 12, 2014 at 1:04 pm Reply

    Nodding my head over here. I need a plan or frame but I don’t plan or schedule everything out. And you are so right that we don’t need to know it all!

  2. lextinacademy August 12, 2014 at 9:03 pm Reply

    Love this! You don’t need a boxed curricula because you can be flexible and choose what fits your family. And you don’t need a detailed minute by minute and day by day plan of everything you want to accomplish – because you will only frustrate yourself! Plans and goals change and you have to be flexible to go along with that. Great post!

  3. Lisa August 12, 2014 at 9:42 pm Reply

    I SO love this post! I couldn’t agree more. I don’t use a boxed curricula. I have never believed that “one size fits all.” I don’t want a minute by minute plan. I want to be led, not only by what I want to cover, but by my children’s interests. I have learned to become more and more flexible as we continue in our homeschooling journey. And, I hear you about social media. Sometimes it is so overwhelming. Looking forward to seeing your posts for the rest of the week! 🙂

  4. Karen M in FL August 13, 2014 at 7:39 am Reply

    I think remember that you don’t need to know it all is the single most important fact. It also helps you model for your kids that learning is life long.

    • 3gigglygirlsathome August 13, 2014 at 9:20 am Reply

      Excellent point! We model all the time but don’t always realize it. I hadn’t thought about it from that perspective yet. Thanks!

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